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  BDSM and Spanking community We want to provide a safe healthy environment in which consenting adults can learn, grow or even discover who they really are. We don’t want to provide porn or act as a dating service. Our goal is to be educational and helpful so everyone can succeed in their own Private Journey. We have BDSM stories, spanking stories, top ten lists, how to guides videos and now a comic strip.
  
  
• BDSM Toys and furniture (DIY)
  The Deviate Leatherman will answer all of your questions for building new bondage and BDSM toys
  
  
  • How to Make a Flogger
    How do I make a Flogger. This is how you make an inexpensive Breast and Genital Flogger.
    
    
  • Walmart Kit
    WalMart kit -- how to build a kit at everybody's neighborhood WalMart.
    
    
  • What does a sub want to hear...
    What does a sub want to hear when first talking to a potential new Dom?
    
    
  • How to Make a Zipper
    How to make a zipper
    
    
  • Inexpensive Flogger
    How to make a flogger directions and pictures. All items should cost less than $10 and no skills required.
    
    
  • Leather Flogger WIth a Wood Handle
    Nice Leather Flogger With a Wood Handle
    
    
  • How to Make a Rope Flogger
    How to MAke a Rope flogger by Deviate Leatherman
    
    
  • How to make a Ball Gag
    How to make an Inexpensive Ball gag.
    
    
  • Vampire Fingers!
    
    
  • Making a Bone Bit Gag
    Making a Bone Bit Making a Bone Gag
    
    
  • DIY Spreader Bar
    DIY Spreader Bar Great design for a $5 Spreader Bar
    
    
  • Designing a Bondage Table
    Designing a Bondage Table
    
    
  • Designing a Bondage Table II
    Designing a Bondage Table
    
    
  • Bondage Toys Making a Ball Gag
    
    
• Survey Thanks
  
  
• BSDM Stories and articles
  Free BDSM stories and free Spanking Stories
  
  
  • What drew me to BDSM
    "How did you discover your nature, when did you awaken, and what were some of the key events in your life that continued to draw you down the BDSM path?"
    
    
  • Hurt me sir
    "This could hurt pretty bad" he tells me, "I just want to warn you". "I'm all yours," I reply "show no mercy."
    
    
  • Why Are You Still Here?
    Some people just don't understand when they need to leave.
    
    
  • Sarah's Party
    
    
  • Masochism as a Spiritual Path
    Masochism as a Spiritual Path
    
    
  • One man's story
    One man's BDSM Story
    
    
  • Why are you in the lifestyle?
    Why are you in the lifestyle? I found this on a forum and thought that others would enjoy it
    
    
  • The Masters Fruit
    
    
  • Masters Mark
    Masters Mark by Boundcreature
    
    
  • Yes, Mistress
    Yes, Mistress by Denali Rayne (address withheld) An innocent woman attends a BDSM dungeon for her first taste of submitting to a Dom Femme Mistress. (FF, d/s, bdsm)
    
    
  • Window Watching (MF, exh, voy, reluc, bdsm)
    Window Watching (MF, exh, voy, reluc, bdsm) by Marcia Hooper Kellie is in a terrible pickle. Not only is she bound and gagged in front of an open window, naked and with various toys stimulating her privates, but she has put herself there. With the help of her boyfriend, of course. Only where is her boyfriend now? And how long can she keep the second part of this humiating scenario from kicking in? Join Kellie as she desperately fights to keep from having her lifestyle exposed.
    
    
  • Wife's Photo Shoot (MMF, wife, voy, bond, reluc, cuck)
    Wife's Photo Shoot (MMF, wife, voy, bond, reluc, cuck) by Hardy I wanted glamorous and sexy pictures of my wife while she was still beautiful. We connected with Kim, a professional photographer, and a picture session was arranged. With the help of her three assistants routine shots in dresses progressed to poses in lingerie, some cocktails overcoming her reluctance. Soon some very erotic poses, and then Kim wanted to add a male model, with the escalation of the session to a level that we had not anticipated.
    
    
  • Within Clarissa
    Within Clarissa by Urs Nick meets Clarissa. Clarissa is submissive. Clarissa needs humiliation, Clarissa needs pain, Clarissa needs torture. This is the story of their relationship. Written in a pulp-fiction style chockfull of cheesy metaphors no less. You HAVE been warned. (MF, rom, ws, bd, tor)
    
    
  • Why Did I Do It?
    Why Did I Do It? by Cuffed Wife organises a 'special' night for her and husband, but its hijacked by his boss and her lesbian lover, Katrina. (FF, 1st-lesbian-expr, bd)
    
    
  • Bondage In Public
    Bondage In Public
    
    
  • The Bondage Club
    The Bondage Club
    
    
  • BOSS'S REVENGE
    BOSS'S REVENGE
    
    
  • FUCKED OVER BY MY BOSS
    FUCKED OVER BY MY BOSS By SLIRPUFF FEB 2008
    
    
  • CATCHING A SLUT WIFE
    
    
• Top Ten lists
  Top Ten Lists from Deviate Leatherman
  
  
  • Top Ten Reasons your Sub may be a Switch
    This is the first in an ongoing installment of "top Ten" Lists that Deviate Leatherman will be adding tio MyPrivateJourney.com
    
    
  • Office top ten
    Top Ten Signs that some one in the office is in the lifestyle
    
    
  • Redneck Top Ten
    Top Ten signs that your Dom is a Redneck...
    
    
  • They don't get it
    
    
  • Top Ten Signs your neighbor is in the lifestyle
    Top Ten Signs your neighbor is in the lifestyle
    
    
  • Santa May Be A Dom
    Top ten signs that Santa may be a Dom
    
    
  • Top Ten Signs That Your Mom is a Dom
    Top Ten Signs That Your Mom is a Dom
    
    
  • Top Ten Things to Say to Frustrate Your Dom
    
    
  • Top ten toy perversions
    Top 10 Toy Game Perversions
    
    
  • Top ten gifts for someone contemplating the lifestyle
    
    
  • Top Ten Cover Stories When Toy Box Is Discovered
    Top Ten Cover Stories When Toy Box Is Discovered
    
    
  • Bettie Page is Better Than Madonna
    
    
  • Top Ten Signs That Your Sub is a SAM (Smart Ass Masochist)
    Top Ten Signs That Your Sub is a SAM (Smart Ass Masochist)
    
    
  • Top Ten tied up bindfolded and gagged
    Top Ten Things That You Don’t Want to Hear When You Are Tied up, blindfolded and gagged
    
    
  • Top ten things we owe to Pope Innocent III and Pope Gregory IX *
    
    
• Surveys
  
  
  • 2nd Survey
    What's in Your Bag...
    
    
  • What do you prefer?
    What do you prefer?
    
    
  • Quality
    Tell us what qualities you are looking for...
    
    
  • How Are We Doing
    We've been sharing with you for a little over amonth now and we would like to know how Are We Doing.
    
    
  • How Kinky Are You
    How Kinky Are You survey
    
    
  • What would you most like to know how to make
    What would you most like to learn how to make?
    
    
  • Post Thanksgiving survey
    
    
  • What to Bring to a Holiday Party
    
    
  • Either/Or Survey
    Either or Survey
    
    
• Survey results
  Survey Results Pages
  
  
  • 1st Survey results
    First Time with BDSM Results
    
    
  • Results from What's in your toy bag Survey
    Results from What's in your toy bag Survey
    
    
  • What do you prefer results
    Results from the "what do you prefer results"
    
    
  • Kinky results
    
    
  • Post Thanksgiving Survey Results
    
    
• Trick or Spanking
  Trick or Spanking fun, free spanking Video
  
  
• Thankyou
  Thank you page for survey response
  
  
• Survey Thank you
  
  
• The Novices
  We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
  
  
  • The Novices 1
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM. The Novices go to Pet Mart
    
    
  • The Novices 2
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM. The Novices Go Toy Shopping
    
    
  • Novices 3
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 4
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • Thr Novices 5
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 6
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 7
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 8
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 9
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 10
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 11
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 12
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 13
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 14
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 15
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 16
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
  • The Novices 17
    We track the sometimes humorous journey that an ordinary suburban couple takes while discovering BDSM.
    
    
• Misc Humor
  MIscelaneous stories etc.. that don;t fit somewhere else on the page
  
  
  • 7 types of Subs
    Types of Subs I think I know a few of these (Subs) This is a posting from a group I'm in I hope you find it as funny as I did.at
    
    
  • 12 Days of Christmas BDSM style
    12 Days of Christmas BDSM style
    
    
  • Jungle Balls
    Jingle Balls BDSM Christmas songs
    
    
  • Twas the Night Before Christmas BDSM Style
    Twas the Night Before Christmas BDSM Style
    
    
  • Let This Serve As a Warning
    Danger Zone -- let this serve as a warning
    
    
  • You May Be A Submissive If...
    You May Be A Submissive If...
    
    
  • You May Be A Submissive If...
    You May Be A Submissive If...
    
    
• Spanking New Christmas Tree
  Deviate's Spanking New Christmas Tree
  
  
• Links
  Links
  
  
• Bettie Page
  Our tribute to Bettie Page
  
  
  • Bettie Page 1950
    Bettie Page 1950
    
    
  • Bettie Page Interview
    REAL Betty Page Interview Her Life in Her Words
    
    
  • Bettie's Punishment
    Bettie's Punishment
    
    
  • Classic Bettie Page
    Classic Bettie Page
    
    
  • Bettie Page Biography
    Bettie Page Biography
    
    
  • Bettie Page Trivia
    
    
  • Bettie Page Quotes
    
    
• BDSM and Fetish Events
  Listing of BDSM, Fetish, Bondage and spanking events
  
  
• DIY Bondage Toy Videos
  DIY Bondage Toys -- How to videos
  
  
  • Bone Bit Gag
    Bondage Toys -- How to make a Bone Bit Gag
    
    
  • Ball Gag
    Bondage Toys -- How to make a Ball Gag
    
    
  • Vampire Fingers
    Bondage Toys -- How to make Vampire Fingers
    
    
  • Breast and Genital Flogger
    Bondage Toys -- How to make a Breast and Genital Flogger
    
    
  • Rope Flogger
    Bondage Toys -- How to make a Rope Flogger